Online dating taught me more about myself than it did about men.
"There's nothing worse than talking to someone who is only making eye contact with their phone."
One night I was sitting with my kids whilst they were watching TV, and in part as a joke and something to dream of, I wrote out a "shopping list" of what I wanted in a husband. I asked the kids to call out a few things so I could add them to the list. Then I folded it up and put it away, without thinking about it again.