As a therapist, I can teach a couple how to communicate in an hour. It's not complicated. But dealing with the troublemakers who started the fight? Well, that takes a lifetime.
A wedding photographer must be both assertive and engaging in order to take the images you want without irritating you or your guests. This requires experience, professionalism and the right personality.
A man can feel the need to grow up and have a family, especially when he finds a woman who inspires those feelings in him.
It's easy to make everyone feel included! If you have close friends and family that can't attend, consider a reception once you return home. There are hi-tech options for the actual ceremony too, like video cams so guests can watch the wedding live. Or, go the social route and create a #hashtag for your wedding so family and friends can follow along.